Selfless Being: The Law of Detachment: "Which is about letting go of our need to control outcomes, our attachment to our desires, and – perhaps most difficult – our need to control..."
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Thursday, February 3, 2011
Selfless Being: The Law of Detachment
Selfless Being: The Law of Detachment: "Which is about letting go of our need to control outcomes, our attachment to our desires, and – perhaps most difficult – our need to control..."
take the backward step ... turn around and journey inward
Sex
Sex
Most guys think with their “you know what”. True or false? Maybe. There is an energy there that when channeled properly can be used constructively. It is the sexual energy from the root chakra. When used for selfish pleasure as in lust, pornography addiction, …etc the pleasure is bodily and short lived. It always leaves an emptiness after the animal urge has been fulfilled.
Sex is meant to be enjoyed and is a beautiful gift. The creative energy that comes from it can be used for various healing and caring. Lust is selfish and love is selfless. Love and self cannot co-exist. Real love will melt the self into selflessness. When you find true love, there will be no longer you – you simply merge into love. When you find truth you are no more because you become truth and there will be no more borders. When you find the true meaning of sex, you will find intimacy, oneness, wholeness of being not just with another partner but with the entire universe where there is no distinction beween inner and outer.
When you can be seamless and see through the real meaning of sex through your own maturity and understanding in life as you grow older and travel more in life, you will appreciate its beauty and meaning and its purpose in creation of the here and now.
In a moment of madness or indolence we react from our conditioning, habits or memory. As we purge or purify ourselves by not believing the mind, we can learn to put the mind aside and see things as they are. Women are not objects of sex. Men are not all obsessed with sex. The mind can be seen for what it is – a great magician and distorter of the truth.
Selfish desires hurts oneself and others. Selflessness gives, heals and shares bliss, peace and harmony. Take that energy from sex and transform it internally into something constructive that heals ourselves and others.
Most guys think with their “you know what”. True or false? Maybe. There is an energy there that when channeled properly can be used constructively. It is the sexual energy from the root chakra. When used for selfish pleasure as in lust, pornography addiction, …etc the pleasure is bodily and short lived. It always leaves an emptiness after the animal urge has been fulfilled.
Sex is meant to be enjoyed and is a beautiful gift. The creative energy that comes from it can be used for various healing and caring. Lust is selfish and love is selfless. Love and self cannot co-exist. Real love will melt the self into selflessness. When you find true love, there will be no longer you – you simply merge into love. When you find truth you are no more because you become truth and there will be no more borders. When you find the true meaning of sex, you will find intimacy, oneness, wholeness of being not just with another partner but with the entire universe where there is no distinction beween inner and outer.
When you can be seamless and see through the real meaning of sex through your own maturity and understanding in life as you grow older and travel more in life, you will appreciate its beauty and meaning and its purpose in creation of the here and now.
In a moment of madness or indolence we react from our conditioning, habits or memory. As we purge or purify ourselves by not believing the mind, we can learn to put the mind aside and see things as they are. Women are not objects of sex. Men are not all obsessed with sex. The mind can be seen for what it is – a great magician and distorter of the truth.
Selfish desires hurts oneself and others. Selflessness gives, heals and shares bliss, peace and harmony. Take that energy from sex and transform it internally into something constructive that heals ourselves and others.
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